* Almost a dog in the manger. Lives, but it is live. Happy, but does not allow others to be. He takes it personally. Is only thinking about herself.
In the ocean of relationships, I am a fish contreras. Swim upstream. I do not follow conventions.
always followed a motto: while do not hurt anyone, is pa 'lante. And I did. In the tangled world of relationships, I learned to be good after a few times, and I got a little shot in the foot.
There are things that at first sounds very complicated and even give a bad feeling, bad vibes. I too have lived in the flesh this, but I will put the example a friend, because its outcome is more honest and more product is a natural choice, not imposed.
Companion, pal, you do that fell short of the circumstances. An example of maturity and overcome. A sample of understanding, the antithesis of selfishness and a model of lucidity.
ever told me that his ex-girlfriend was rare. Do not be greeted like that in his presence was acting strange. Then, though it told me then told him they had seen one of his best friends with her. I think it was a couple of times, in a nightclub.
At that time, was unable to relate the two things. But then I understand well. As by magic, all the pieces together and the final conclusion was like a shot thundered his mind, but not his body. Simple: the shot was not directed at him.
That's why I took sport. It seemed strange situation, but I knew I had not done for much less scrubbing. He also knew that he no longer felt anything for her and then had no reason to bother.
"Building a scandal because it was his ex? He thought he was above such a senseless tragedy. Opted for a decision more pants, went to talk to his friend to ask if she went with her and tell her that he had no major If so problems. He beat him and told him the truth: out, they liked and wanted . But just out. There were no plans to be.
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is inevitable and necessary to recall some aspects a priori. The three had already said in previous post, so I just mention them, to bear this in mind: No one owns it, no one decides who's going to start to like and deny feelings is unnatural.
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My friend agreed, not without feeling a bit strange his friend out with his ex. Not that you asked permission, but given how unusual it was better than I knew. Soon after, a couple of questions, answers and uncertainties that will air it hovered mind.
1. What if instead of being so comprehensive, it would have done more if my first instinct and became the surprise in a bad mood, in a discussion with a friend? How much would have changed my relationship with him? What happened?
concluded that he had sinned terribly selfish and a bad friend. If he did not feel anything for his ex, why deny it fun, affection and companionship to an of your best friends? And above all, if his good friend did nothing to harm or scrub, why he did do it? It would not make much sense.
2. Should he make a drama for the former because they 'got' with one of your best friends? Again
felt over wanting to create a tragedy from the subject. He accepted that he did it on purpose. And if they had finished two years ago, did bother much sense? Resolved that the image that would project would be an ex still has feelings. And nothing more false than that. So what? Half found no answer. Why mere convention? What nonsense, he thought.
3. Should he listen more to their friends?
Firstly, all agreed it was wrong about his ex and her leg. He thought then that he must think alike. If everyone thought like that, it must be right. But what I did not realize then was that his friends told him just what he wanted to hear. Or simply nodded, not saying what he really thought. When told they had decided to be normal about it, there just was told that it was indeed the best, because there was nothing to do roches. And although there was a couple who had set themselves, God knows why, to create drama and wanting to impose discomfort and resentment, not left to influence and was smarter than that.
His change of attitude was not free. That at one time may have seemed strange to have annoyed him, and then accepts it without drama or roches, not the product of a simple change of mood.
face the strangeness of the moment, a good book upon him. It was preferable to think of something else. A phrase came to light.
" Almost a dog in the manger. Lives, but not to live. Happy, but does not allow others to be. He takes it personally. Is only thinking about herself. Drama queen and always ends being as she wants it. So at the expense of the other scour life. Their selfishness does not believe in her friends. "
He did not end well. You do
vouchers, my brother.
* My case was not the end. But that already is subject of the next post.
At least (by mail) I'll leave it.
What is it with you That makes me act like this? (8)
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